The final countdown has begun, it was inevitable that the last weekend of the summer vacation would arrive and it is here. This time next week, in fact after two days of teacher training memories of carefree summer evenings become a little distorted as we hit the ground running as a new academic session begins. I am usually overwhelmed by the enormity of the demands I know a new session will bring and like many of my colleagues may have a somewhat restless night on Sunday, not out of worry, but probably just sheer adrenalin. Additionally our visit from Her Majesty's Inspectors still loom so that will bring additional pressure from the top, we are hoping they will visit early...........
Today (day 249) I am thankful to be able to do a job I have wanted to do from the age of around 8, privileged to be given responsibility for the care of such precious 'cargo.'
Friday, 31 August 2012
Thursday, 30 August 2012
The Waltons...........not quite
Goodnight John-Boy, goodnight Mary Ellen, goodnight Elizabeth................ John and Olivia Walton were raising seven children, well so are we, well, just for a day or two and it's all good fun. It's good to be a back seat driver and just observe children, at play, falling out, making up, negotiating, taking charge, caring, sharing......... just being friends, it makes fascinating viewing.
We have been blessed to be keeping watch over some children as their Mum and Dad take some much needed R & R and it has been non stop in our household today and if I'm honest I ache in lots of places, but a nice kind of ache, if that's possible!
I am thankful today (day 248) for the opportunity to keep on learning.
We have been blessed to be keeping watch over some children as their Mum and Dad take some much needed R & R and it has been non stop in our household today and if I'm honest I ache in lots of places, but a nice kind of ache, if that's possible!
I am thankful today (day 248) for the opportunity to keep on learning.
Wednesday, 29 August 2012
The boys are back in town......
The boys are back in town, having thoroughly enjoyed their fellowship in the not quite wilderness, both keen to enjoy a long soak in the bath. Sam agreed it was good to try something he hadn't experienced before and would not rule out doing it again despite the wet weather, numerous frogs, flying insects and a dead rat. Talk of fun games, good food and lengthy conversations about God really made me happy.
Incidentally when Aaron arrived home from camp I was on the phone and he commented on the breadth of my smile as I chatted and asked who I was chatting to. I told him it was Aunty Shad, my sister....................... Time spent in her company, even when it is just on the phone is just an enormous blessing. We take time to listen to each other, offer advice and just encourage each other. We always finish our conversations feeling like conquerors and today (day 247) I am truly thankful.
With the Paralympic Games opening ceremony underway inspirational stories are in abundance and stop you in your tracks; not stories of pity, but as a commentator said, stories of how people have chosen to react to adversity................. A story I hadn't heard before was that of Martine Wright who will be competing in the sitting volleyball competition. Wright lost both of her legs in the Aldgate underground explosion in the 7/7 London bombings in 2005. She lost 80% of the blood in her body and was in a coma for ten days and had to undergo ten months of surgery following the injury. (Wikipedia)
Commitment and Courage
Incidentally when Aaron arrived home from camp I was on the phone and he commented on the breadth of my smile as I chatted and asked who I was chatting to. I told him it was Aunty Shad, my sister....................... Time spent in her company, even when it is just on the phone is just an enormous blessing. We take time to listen to each other, offer advice and just encourage each other. We always finish our conversations feeling like conquerors and today (day 247) I am truly thankful.
With the Paralympic Games opening ceremony underway inspirational stories are in abundance and stop you in your tracks; not stories of pity, but as a commentator said, stories of how people have chosen to react to adversity................. A story I hadn't heard before was that of Martine Wright who will be competing in the sitting volleyball competition. Wright lost both of her legs in the Aldgate underground explosion in the 7/7 London bombings in 2005. She lost 80% of the blood in her body and was in a coma for ten days and had to undergo ten months of surgery following the injury. (Wikipedia)
Commitment and Courage
| 'Rise up...take courage and do it.' Ezra 10:4 | |||
| Terry Fox ran across Canada and raised
twenty-four million dollars to fight cancer. What's amazing is that he did it with one leg; cancer had taken the other. He planned to run twenty-six miles each day but because of severe headaches, snow and icy roads, after a month he'd only managed to struggle about eight miles a day. So why did he keep going? Because the purpose in his heart was stronger than the pain in his body. They could amputate his leg, but not his spirit! Commitment is a willingness to do whatever it takes; it's a promise to yourself, from which you refuse to back down. There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested you do it only when it's convenient, but when you're committed you accept no excuses-only results. Only you can decide whether the rewards are worth the effort, for there are trade-offs. You can't have a healthy body and live on junk food. A guaranteed salary is nonexistent when you start your own business. Mindless hours of watching television and straight 'A's' are a rare combination. Commitment means paying your dues. It also means disregarding your critics. Jesus did that. 'But Jesus ignored their comments and said...'Don't be afraid. Just trust me' (Mark 5:36 TLB). Ralph Waldo Emerson said: 'Whatever course you decide upon, there will always be someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage.' UCB Word for Today A poignant message for today's events. |
Tuesday, 28 August 2012
Girls like to have fun........
What to do when the boys are away
Oh yes girls should most definitely go out to play
Where oh where shall we choose?
Mmm, a place to dine by The Cam or The Ouse
A spot of shopping, the window kind of course
No persuasion necessary or any kind of force
And when offered a small thing as a treat
Gracie thought hard and books, books she said would be neat
Us girls we like to have fun
And a Mummy and daughter day we enjoyed in the welcoming sun..............
Today (day 246) I give hearty thanks for such a blessing, hope your day was too.
Oh yes girls should most definitely go out to play
Where oh where shall we choose?
Mmm, a place to dine by The Cam or The Ouse
A spot of shopping, the window kind of course
No persuasion necessary or any kind of force
And when offered a small thing as a treat
Gracie thought hard and books, books she said would be neat
Us girls we like to have fun
And a Mummy and daughter day we enjoyed in the welcoming sun..............
Today (day 246) I give hearty thanks for such a blessing, hope your day was too.
Monday, 27 August 2012
The great outdoors............. here they come!
I know my Ayo was thrilled it was a holiday today, having clocked around 400 miles over the weekend and even the damp, grey skies couldn't discolour his delight. The lie-in was most welcome.
I had to chuckle at my boys today, well, actually Sam, as he and Aaron set off for a couple of nights camping with our fellowship youth group. Aaron loves the outdoors and is a bit of a veteran when it comes to camping having spent several years as a scout and having only last week camped with a best mate in the garden. Sam on the other hand is more like me and aside from being very much a homebody loves his creature comforts and was hesitant when it was time to leave. I do though, have total confidence that he will embrace the experience for what it is, a time of fun fuelled fellowship and bonding. Gracie was counting down till their departure, they were probably doing the same ............... glad for a bit of R&R from her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She'll feel differently tomorrow when she wakes up and her best buds are not here!
An impromptu, but welcome visit from friends completed a full on day and today (day 245) I am thankful.
I had to chuckle at my boys today, well, actually Sam, as he and Aaron set off for a couple of nights camping with our fellowship youth group. Aaron loves the outdoors and is a bit of a veteran when it comes to camping having spent several years as a scout and having only last week camped with a best mate in the garden. Sam on the other hand is more like me and aside from being very much a homebody loves his creature comforts and was hesitant when it was time to leave. I do though, have total confidence that he will embrace the experience for what it is, a time of fun fuelled fellowship and bonding. Gracie was counting down till their departure, they were probably doing the same ............... glad for a bit of R&R from her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She'll feel differently tomorrow when she wakes up and her best buds are not here!
An impromptu, but welcome visit from friends completed a full on day and today (day 245) I am thankful.
Sunday, 26 August 2012
Celebrating more good times...................
When I woke up this morning I was still thinking about the lovely anniversary celebration and was reminded of a fun activity Ayo and I did around the time of our 10th wedding anniversary. We got pieces of paper and each had to write down 50 reasons we were glad to be married to each other. We then shared our reasons with each other. You know it was not hard work to think of 50 each. In fact we could have gone beyond 50. The reasons were varied and many were based on what we did to serve each other or what we did to express our love for each other, the little things that hadn't gone unnoticed. It was a simple activity, but brought so much joy.
Now I know I said there was no sermon yesterday, but I came across this and.............
Keys for a Successful Marriage by Larry Moreland
It is long but I am sure you will b blessed by it.
BUILD REAL GENUINE INTIMACY
God says in Genesis 2:24, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife; and they shall be one flesh.” Intimacy is often thought of only in terms of the physical relationship. But when God says one should cleave to his wife, He is saying that there is total intimacy of spirit, soul, and body. If there is no intimacy of the soul and spirit, then the physical relationship will not be fulfilling.
Build closeness. Sit down frequently and talk things over. Be a good listener. Communicate. Share your feelings. Let your husband or wife know that he or she is the most important person on earth to you. Many times after marriage occurs, times of intimate sharing become less and less frequent, and the early super-romantic feeling dwindle, and the first tingly love is lost. Then some married partners say they are not “in love” anymore. But the early romantic spirit of courtship must continue to grow if the marriage is to be a successful marriage.
Also, sometimes when problems set in, one or both of the married companions start to talk with someone else instead of communicating with each other, if you need to talk to someone, both of you together should talk with your pastor, a trusted Christian friend, or a Christian counsellor.
But when you start sharing deep feelings with a friend at work, or with some other casual acquaintance — or when you bottle up your feelings — there is bound to be trouble. The husband and wife should share the deep feelings and innermost thoughts with each other. This is one of the reasons why God has designed that a man or woman should have a married partner.
KEEP ON BEING SWEETHEARTS
The great treatise on love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. God says, “Love suffers long, and is kind; love envies not, vaunts not itself, is not puffed up, does not behave itself unseemly, seeks not its own, is not easily provoked, thinks no evil, rejoices not in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” It is helpful to note the things that love is and that love does. Love is based on giving, on pleasing God, and on being in harmony with one another. God so loved the world that He “gave” (John 3:1B). Love is manifested through giving. Love toward another is the willingness to give to that person whatever you have that he needs, because you know that such an attitude is God’s will. And when you graciously give to a married partner, good feelings will follow, and you will discover that you are in love all over again.
Don’t ever lay aside the spirit of courtship. Some men make provision for a special date with their wife each week. That isn’t a bad idea. Give it a try. And tell your wife at least once a day that you love her — and then show it ten times a day by your kindness, courtesy, and thoughtfulness. If each husband and wife would work as hard to keep each other as they once did to attract each other in the first place, most domestic home problems would be solved.
FORGIVE AND FORGET CONFLICTS
The instruction of the Bible is, “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamour and evil speaking, be put away from you … and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God, for Christ’s sake has forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:31-32). Never be afraid to go to your marriage companion and ask forgiveness for a careless word or a wrong deed.
Some say, “But, I can’t.” Others say, “But don’t feel like it.” However, we must forgive and forget, not because we feel like it but because it is right — because God says so.
Do you know that when we trust Christ as Saviour, God the Father promises to remember our sins no more? He will never bring up those sins to us again. Can we not, with the power of Jesus Christ working within us, forgive our mate’s failures, and promise never to bring them up again? This is God’s way. If we will follow this procedure, the mind will more and more be inclined to forget. But if we don’t forgive, our bitterness and alienation will grow stronger, and a bitter spirit will develop and do much harm spiritually, mentally, and physically. We need to learn to never build walls, but to build bridges of love and understanding.
An anonymous writer says: “They say a wife and husband, bit by bit, can rear between themselves a mighty wall — so thick they cannot speak with ease through it, nor can they see across it — it stands so tall. Its nearness frightens them, but each alone is powerless to tear its bulk away; and each wishes he had known some magic thing to say. So let us build with master art, my dear, a bridge of love between your life and mine, a bridge of tenderness, and a bridge of understanding, strong and fine — till we have formed so many lovely ties, there never will be room for walls to rise.”
PRACTISE PRAYER AND BIBLE READING
The Psalmist says, “Thy word have I hidden in mine heart that I might not sin against thee” (Psalm 119:11). And in the New Testament, we read, “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). We have many problems in life because we don’t take seriously the matter of hiding God’s Word in our hearts. The more that we build Scripture into our lives the greater will be our success in strengthening the marriage relationship. Seldom is there a divorce where there is a regular family altar with daily prayer and Bible reading.
Begin each new day with the family altar. By the “family altar” we simply mean that you take the Bible, read a portion from its pages, and then as a family kneel around the altar of prayer — and in simple language ask God to rule over your home, and ask His blessing upon all who dwell there. The God-fearing families of Israel “rose up in the morning early, and worshipped before the Lord” (1 Samuel 1:19). They started each new day with a family altar. Families that pray together stay together.
Read the Bible together. Study it. Memorise Scripture. Meditate on God’s Word. As we build Scripture into our lives we come to know more and more about God’s ways and will increasingly be able to live according to His will. But if we don’t concentrate on learning the Scriptures, then we open our lives to greater infiltration by the false philosophies of this evil world system.
LIVE ON A MATURE LEVEL
God says we should not be like children “tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive. But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, who is the head, even Christ” (Ephesians 4:14-15).
The Scriptures show us how to live mature lives, instead of being childish in our way of doing things. Some are inclined to say, “I’ll do things my way.” Others say, “But everybody’s doing it this way.” The Christian, however, must look to the Word of God and not to the sinful world for advice. The Christian who is mature says, “I’ll do it God’s way because He knows best.” The world needs to see more examples of true married love. Carefully read Ephesians 5:22-25 and note how married love is intended by God to be a demonstration of the love of God for the church. The Christian home is to be a home where love reigns supreme, a home where the husband loves his wife with the sacrificial-giving-kind-of-love which Christ has shown to us. The Christian home is a home where the wife lovingly and happily submits to her husband’s leadership. The husband is not to be a tyrant who thinks that all the wheels of the home must turn to suit his pleasure. The wife must guard against nagging and scolding. When there is disharmony in the home, God says our prayer-life will be hindered (1 Peter 3:1-7).
MAKE A TOTAL COMMITMENT TO CHRIST
The Bible says, “Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it; except the Lord keep the city, the watchman wakes but in vain” (Psalm 127:1). A city may have a watchman or even many watchmen, and take all kinds of precautions against attack — but if the Lord is not in His rightful place (and if the Lord is not guarding and protecting that city), then everything else they might do for protection is in vain. It is the same in building a marriage. We may do many things in building a marriage, but if we are not allowing the Lord to be in control and to build our home, all is in vain.
Jesus is the cement that holds the home together. He is the Guide, the Teacher, the One who unites, and the One who plants love in the heart.
Pray alone with your husband or wife: “Lord Jesus, we want your will. We give our home to you. We ask you now to take control of our lives and of our home.” And then renew this covenant frequently. When two people are rightly related to Jesus Christ, they will be rightly related to each other. It is our choice. We can have a happy and successful marriage if we will do things God’s way. Joshua told the people of his day that they had to choose which way to go. “Choose you this day whom ye will serve … but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).
Continuing with our weekend of socialising we set off to meet up with family and engage in some overdue fellowship and as usual our lengthy-ish car journey provided us with an opportunity to open up the 'Aina' discussion forum and today we were dissecting the topic of respect under the umbrella of cultural traditions. Ayo was explaining to the kids that they were going to be meeting a member of the family for the first time (his eldest cousin) and that it would b important to show her respect when greeting her, which according to our culture would be for Gracie, a light curtsy and the boys a gentle bowing of the head (a full prostration would not be necessary!!!!) We discussed the use of the expression Aunt and Uncle when addressing people who were not either, that again this was born out of a tradition of showing respect to people who were more senior to you. They were fascinated and chuckled amongst themselves.
I believe that respect should be a two way traffic, but also that the respect that is born our of cultural tradition gives us the foundation to build upon.
On the menu today was lovely food, over flowing conversation and side splitting laughter and a lot of love. As my hubby said, it was just a truly wonderful day spent in relaxed company called 'family.' What a blessing! The fast pace of busy lives means that we simply are often limited to catching up during the holidays, but boy do we make up for it and today (day 244) I just simply give thanks to my Father in heaven.
Now I know I said there was no sermon yesterday, but I came across this and.............
Keys for a Successful Marriage by Larry Moreland
It is long but I am sure you will b blessed by it.
BUILD REAL GENUINE INTIMACY
God says in Genesis 2:24, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife; and they shall be one flesh.” Intimacy is often thought of only in terms of the physical relationship. But when God says one should cleave to his wife, He is saying that there is total intimacy of spirit, soul, and body. If there is no intimacy of the soul and spirit, then the physical relationship will not be fulfilling.
Build closeness. Sit down frequently and talk things over. Be a good listener. Communicate. Share your feelings. Let your husband or wife know that he or she is the most important person on earth to you. Many times after marriage occurs, times of intimate sharing become less and less frequent, and the early super-romantic feeling dwindle, and the first tingly love is lost. Then some married partners say they are not “in love” anymore. But the early romantic spirit of courtship must continue to grow if the marriage is to be a successful marriage.
Also, sometimes when problems set in, one or both of the married companions start to talk with someone else instead of communicating with each other, if you need to talk to someone, both of you together should talk with your pastor, a trusted Christian friend, or a Christian counsellor.
But when you start sharing deep feelings with a friend at work, or with some other casual acquaintance — or when you bottle up your feelings — there is bound to be trouble. The husband and wife should share the deep feelings and innermost thoughts with each other. This is one of the reasons why God has designed that a man or woman should have a married partner.
KEEP ON BEING SWEETHEARTS
The great treatise on love is found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. God says, “Love suffers long, and is kind; love envies not, vaunts not itself, is not puffed up, does not behave itself unseemly, seeks not its own, is not easily provoked, thinks no evil, rejoices not in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.” It is helpful to note the things that love is and that love does. Love is based on giving, on pleasing God, and on being in harmony with one another. God so loved the world that He “gave” (John 3:1B). Love is manifested through giving. Love toward another is the willingness to give to that person whatever you have that he needs, because you know that such an attitude is God’s will. And when you graciously give to a married partner, good feelings will follow, and you will discover that you are in love all over again.
Don’t ever lay aside the spirit of courtship. Some men make provision for a special date with their wife each week. That isn’t a bad idea. Give it a try. And tell your wife at least once a day that you love her — and then show it ten times a day by your kindness, courtesy, and thoughtfulness. If each husband and wife would work as hard to keep each other as they once did to attract each other in the first place, most domestic home problems would be solved.
FORGIVE AND FORGET CONFLICTS
The instruction of the Bible is, “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamour and evil speaking, be put away from you … and be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God, for Christ’s sake has forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:31-32). Never be afraid to go to your marriage companion and ask forgiveness for a careless word or a wrong deed.
Some say, “But, I can’t.” Others say, “But don’t feel like it.” However, we must forgive and forget, not because we feel like it but because it is right — because God says so.
Do you know that when we trust Christ as Saviour, God the Father promises to remember our sins no more? He will never bring up those sins to us again. Can we not, with the power of Jesus Christ working within us, forgive our mate’s failures, and promise never to bring them up again? This is God’s way. If we will follow this procedure, the mind will more and more be inclined to forget. But if we don’t forgive, our bitterness and alienation will grow stronger, and a bitter spirit will develop and do much harm spiritually, mentally, and physically. We need to learn to never build walls, but to build bridges of love and understanding.
An anonymous writer says: “They say a wife and husband, bit by bit, can rear between themselves a mighty wall — so thick they cannot speak with ease through it, nor can they see across it — it stands so tall. Its nearness frightens them, but each alone is powerless to tear its bulk away; and each wishes he had known some magic thing to say. So let us build with master art, my dear, a bridge of love between your life and mine, a bridge of tenderness, and a bridge of understanding, strong and fine — till we have formed so many lovely ties, there never will be room for walls to rise.”
PRACTISE PRAYER AND BIBLE READING
The Psalmist says, “Thy word have I hidden in mine heart that I might not sin against thee” (Psalm 119:11). And in the New Testament, we read, “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). We have many problems in life because we don’t take seriously the matter of hiding God’s Word in our hearts. The more that we build Scripture into our lives the greater will be our success in strengthening the marriage relationship. Seldom is there a divorce where there is a regular family altar with daily prayer and Bible reading.
Begin each new day with the family altar. By the “family altar” we simply mean that you take the Bible, read a portion from its pages, and then as a family kneel around the altar of prayer — and in simple language ask God to rule over your home, and ask His blessing upon all who dwell there. The God-fearing families of Israel “rose up in the morning early, and worshipped before the Lord” (1 Samuel 1:19). They started each new day with a family altar. Families that pray together stay together.
Read the Bible together. Study it. Memorise Scripture. Meditate on God’s Word. As we build Scripture into our lives we come to know more and more about God’s ways and will increasingly be able to live according to His will. But if we don’t concentrate on learning the Scriptures, then we open our lives to greater infiltration by the false philosophies of this evil world system.
LIVE ON A MATURE LEVEL
God says we should not be like children “tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive. But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, who is the head, even Christ” (Ephesians 4:14-15).
The Scriptures show us how to live mature lives, instead of being childish in our way of doing things. Some are inclined to say, “I’ll do things my way.” Others say, “But everybody’s doing it this way.” The Christian, however, must look to the Word of God and not to the sinful world for advice. The Christian who is mature says, “I’ll do it God’s way because He knows best.” The world needs to see more examples of true married love. Carefully read Ephesians 5:22-25 and note how married love is intended by God to be a demonstration of the love of God for the church. The Christian home is to be a home where love reigns supreme, a home where the husband loves his wife with the sacrificial-giving-kind-of-love which Christ has shown to us. The Christian home is a home where the wife lovingly and happily submits to her husband’s leadership. The husband is not to be a tyrant who thinks that all the wheels of the home must turn to suit his pleasure. The wife must guard against nagging and scolding. When there is disharmony in the home, God says our prayer-life will be hindered (1 Peter 3:1-7).
MAKE A TOTAL COMMITMENT TO CHRIST
The Bible says, “Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it; except the Lord keep the city, the watchman wakes but in vain” (Psalm 127:1). A city may have a watchman or even many watchmen, and take all kinds of precautions against attack — but if the Lord is not in His rightful place (and if the Lord is not guarding and protecting that city), then everything else they might do for protection is in vain. It is the same in building a marriage. We may do many things in building a marriage, but if we are not allowing the Lord to be in control and to build our home, all is in vain.
Jesus is the cement that holds the home together. He is the Guide, the Teacher, the One who unites, and the One who plants love in the heart.
Pray alone with your husband or wife: “Lord Jesus, we want your will. We give our home to you. We ask you now to take control of our lives and of our home.” And then renew this covenant frequently. When two people are rightly related to Jesus Christ, they will be rightly related to each other. It is our choice. We can have a happy and successful marriage if we will do things God’s way. Joshua told the people of his day that they had to choose which way to go. “Choose you this day whom ye will serve … but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).
Continuing with our weekend of socialising we set off to meet up with family and engage in some overdue fellowship and as usual our lengthy-ish car journey provided us with an opportunity to open up the 'Aina' discussion forum and today we were dissecting the topic of respect under the umbrella of cultural traditions. Ayo was explaining to the kids that they were going to be meeting a member of the family for the first time (his eldest cousin) and that it would b important to show her respect when greeting her, which according to our culture would be for Gracie, a light curtsy and the boys a gentle bowing of the head (a full prostration would not be necessary!!!!) We discussed the use of the expression Aunt and Uncle when addressing people who were not either, that again this was born out of a tradition of showing respect to people who were more senior to you. They were fascinated and chuckled amongst themselves.
I believe that respect should be a two way traffic, but also that the respect that is born our of cultural tradition gives us the foundation to build upon.
On the menu today was lovely food, over flowing conversation and side splitting laughter and a lot of love. As my hubby said, it was just a truly wonderful day spent in relaxed company called 'family.' What a blessing! The fast pace of busy lives means that we simply are often limited to catching up during the holidays, but boy do we make up for it and today (day 244) I just simply give thanks to my Father in heaven.
Saturday, 25 August 2012
Celebrating good times.............
Celebrations are a wonderful thing whatever the occasion and what an auspicious one we enjoyed today................... Very good friends ours were celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary and so we headed up North laugh, sing, dance (a little) and just bless them with prayers for another 25 years. We were also thrilled to meet up with some other pals we hadn't seen for a while............... history is a wonderful treasure to hold on to, it is the glue that connects our past, present and future. It is the thing that gives instant conversation pieces, that makes you smile, laugh and cry, the map of your life so far and all it has been (including the not so good bits). It is the genuine love connection amongst friends and there was plenty of that today. I am so thankful today (day 243) for the history that made today possible.
Now today was a quadruple celebration. Alongside the silver wedding anniversary we were celebrating a 21st and 18th birthday and a graduation. God is good and His grace certainly sufficient................ People were there to honour the Man responsible for this blessed union and rejoice with all the celebrants.
There were no heavy sermons about marriage, each is unique to each couple, instead, votes of thanks and words of encouragement.
On that note I thought I would finish my post today with some light quotes I came across, some made myself and Ayo chuckle.
I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life. - Rita Rudner
For two people in a marriage to live together day
after day is unquestionably the one miracle the Vatican has overlooked. ~Bill Cosby, Love and Marriage
A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. Michel de Montaigne
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin
It is sometimes essential for a husband and a wife to quarrel - they get to know each other better. Goethe
My wife and I have the secret to making a marriage last. Two times a week, we go to a nice restaurant, a little wine, good food..... She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays. - Henry Youngman
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said; after marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish saying it.- Unknown
We have the greatest pre-nuptial agreement in the world. It's called love.- Gene Perret
This is my favourite;
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. -Sam Keen
Now today was a quadruple celebration. Alongside the silver wedding anniversary we were celebrating a 21st and 18th birthday and a graduation. God is good and His grace certainly sufficient................ People were there to honour the Man responsible for this blessed union and rejoice with all the celebrants.
There were no heavy sermons about marriage, each is unique to each couple, instead, votes of thanks and words of encouragement.
On that note I thought I would finish my post today with some light quotes I came across, some made myself and Ayo chuckle.
I love being married. It's so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life. - Rita Rudner
For two people in a marriage to live together day
after day is unquestionably the one miracle the Vatican has overlooked. ~Bill Cosby, Love and Marriage
A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. Michel de Montaigne
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin
It is sometimes essential for a husband and a wife to quarrel - they get to know each other better. Goethe
My wife and I have the secret to making a marriage last. Two times a week, we go to a nice restaurant, a little wine, good food..... She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays. - Henry Youngman
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you said; after marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish saying it.- Unknown
We have the greatest pre-nuptial agreement in the world. It's called love.- Gene Perret
This is my favourite;
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly. -Sam Keen
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