Who's in charge?

I tell you, boy do the Aina clan have some debates.  As always our topics are always Sam inspired!  Tonight at the dinner table we were debating 'who really is in charge in households, mum or dad?' 

We pooled together our family and friends and dissected.  Boy did we laugh.  Our conversations always allow everyone to put forward their opinions tempered with any facts we have at our fingertips.  We came to the conclusion that whilst Ayo takes care of the bigger picture I am very much concerned with the finer detail which really equates to the day to day running of all things pertaining to home.  It's funny we even talked about who wrote the greetings in birthday cards and when we looked at our friends and family, yes it is us mums, concerned with the finer detail. 

Whilst it might appear I am in charge because the day to day running of our home requires me to be more vocal (tidy your room...........have you finished your homework?........ time to clip those fingernail, the list goes on) it is really Ayo who is in charge!  Of course it is!!!!!!

It is so good to talk and dinner time provides a perfect platform to engage in endless banter.  Today (day 280) I am so thankful we did.